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384 pages, Paperback
First published May 3, 2018
“They call us lazy, irresponsible, dangerous, ungrateful.
You hardly ever see positive stories about teenagers. There’s the odd sporting or academic triumph, or a tragic battle with cancer. They only like us when we are excelling, or dying. No one’s interested in the between.”
“Sometimes we’ll make mistakes. Arguments will be won and lost, tears will be shed and sorries will be said. But we will make it work. Even though.”
“Maybe if people woke up and realized that being a teenager is actually pretty fucking hard and it’s because we’re always on our phones or don’t know the meaning of hard work or any of those other bullshit things that people say.
“But it’s also for the rest of us. For anyone who’s ever felt voiceless and hopeless. Because we do have a voice, and there is hope. Even – maybe even especially – when it doesn’t feel that way.”
It's much harder to prove something isn't true than imply that it is.
Sometimes we'll make mistakes. Arguments will be won and lost, tears will be shed and sorries will be said. But we will make it work.
We Are Young follows Evan as she searches for answers after her new stepbrother, Lewis, is in a car accident with three other teenagers he should never have had any association with. A car accident where Lewis is the only survivor.
Evan tries to balance life as a teenager, as a friend, daughter, and sister all while investigating the car accident alongside the journalist father she had long since dropped from her life.The truth is we have no idea what anyone else is going through, no matter how close we are to them. You can never really know. That's the problem.
All you can do is hold your loved ones close. And hope.
This book touches on some really tough subjects; it talks about depression, suicide, alcoholism, and abuse. It's easy to mishandle those types of topics and I would be lying if I said I hadn't been worried that was what was going to happen here but I needn't have because Clarke handled them all with sensitively and realistically.
She also did a great job at giving us complex characters, who for the most part, are incredibly lovable even though they get things wrong. The characters that stood out the most for me were Lewis and Evan's father, Harry. I wanted to hate Harry, I really did but he made it so goddamn hard to. And Lewis was so much more complicated and complex and interesting than I thought he would be, to begin with.
We Are Young looks at the way we as a society treat mental illness, especially among teenagers and challenges it. It shows how appearances are often wrong and that being kind to each other is so, so important especially when you're young As hard as it is to see sometimes, everyone around you is hurting and sometimes all it takes is some kind words and a shoulder to cry on to keep someone here.
I'm reading the article for the third time when it dawns on me that they hate us. The media. It's the only explanation for the way they talk about us. They don't understand us, and they hate us for it.
They call us lazy, irresponsible, dangerous, ungrateful.
You hardly ever see positive stories about teenagers. There's the odd sporting or academic triumph, or a tragic battle with cancer. They only like us when we're excelling, or dying. No one's interested in the in-between.
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I read this book as part of my 2018 Library Love binge, where I read as many library books as possible to take advantage of my great local library network before I move interstate!
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"We are old
They say that we shouldn't cry
We are young
They say that we're too young to die"