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254 pages, Paperback
First published January 1, 65
Philosophy is good advice; and no one can give advice at the top of his lungs.
No man is good by chance. Virtue is something which must be learned. Pleasure is low, petty, to be deemed worthless, shared even by dumb animals—the tiniest and meanest of whom fly towards pleasure. Glory is an empty and fleeting thing, lighter than air. Poverty is an evil to no man unless he kick’s against it. Death is not an evil; why need you ask? Death alone is the equal privilege of mankind.
The mind at times fashions for itself false shapes of evil when there are no signs that point to evil; it twists into the worst construction some word of doubtful meaning; or it fancies some personal grudge to be more serious than it really is, considering not how angry the enemy is, but to what lengths he may go if he is angry.
"If you really want to escape the things that harass you, what you're needing is not to be in a different place but to be a different person."
"There is no enjoying the possession of anything valuable unless one has someone to share it with."
"Treat your inferiors in the way in which you would like to be treated by your own superiors."
"I shall show you a love philtre, compounded without drug or herb or witch's spell — it is this: if you wish to be loved, love."
"The mind has to be given some time off, but in such a way that it may be refreshed, not relaxed till it goes to pieces."
We should develop a fondness for some good man and keep him always before our eyes, to live as though he were watching and act in all things as though he could see. —Epicurus (in 11.8)
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I send you greetings from my villa at Nomentum, wishing you excellence of mind. (110.1)
The work that I am doing is for posterity. (8.2)
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The right path, which I myself discovered late in life when weary from wandering, I now point out to others. (8.3)
The things I say will benefit you whether you like it or not. It’s time for a candid voice to reach you. (89.19)
This is how you should speak; this is how you should live . . . These should be our reflections, dear Lucilius, these are the ways to shape our minds. 10.4, 117.25)
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I will tell you what is my own state of mind when I read him: I yearn to challenge every stroke of fortune—to shout, “Why let up fortune? do your worst! See, I am ready!” (64.4)
All his work has progress as its goal, and excellence of mind. It does not look for applause. (100.11)
So this is what philosophy will do for you—and indeed, I think it is the greatest gift of all: you will never regret what you have done . . . [Cf. To be able to enjoy one's past life is to live twice —Martial 10.23.7] . . . A mind made flawless, a mind that rivals the divine, that elevates itself above the human sphere and places nothing beyond itself . . . Do not judge yourself to be happy until all your joys arise from yourself, until, after viewing the objects of human competition, covetousness, and possessiveness, you find—I will not say nothing to prefer, but nothing to set your heart on. (115.18, 124.23,24)
I will write more about the book when I have been over it a second time. (46.3)
Read always from authors of proven worth; and if ever you are inclined to turn aside to others, return afterward to the previous ones. (2.4)
What other endeavour do you have than to make yourself a better person each day—to lay aside some error, to come to understand that what you think are flaws in your situation are in fact flaws in yourself? (50.1)
More things frighten us than really affect us, and we are more often afflicted in thought than in fact. (13.4)
No one is happy who does not believe himself to be. —Unknown (9.21)
There are two parts to virtue: one is the study of truth, and the other is action. (94.45)
Who regards his doctrine, not as a vain display of knowledge, but as a rule of life; who obeys himself and complies with his own precepts —Cicero, Tusculan Disputations, 2.4
I frequently encounter people who think that what they themselves cannot do is impossible, and who say that our Stoic theories are beyond the capacities of human nature. I myself have a much higher opinion of human beings: they are actually capable of doing these thing, but they are unwilling. Has anyone who really made the effort ever found the task beyond him? Hasn’t it always been found easier in the doing? It is not the difficulty of things that saps our confidence, but our lack of confidence that creates the difficulty. (104.25-26) . . . In fact, though, there’s something else involved: our love for our own faults. We defend them and we would rather make excuses for them than shake them off. Human nature has been endowed with sufficient strength if only we use it. We have only to assemble our resources and get them all to fight on our behalf rather than against us. Inability is just an excuse; the real reason is unwillingness. (116.8)
So many things to know: when will you learn them? When will you fix them in your mind so that they cannot be forgotten? When will you try them out? For these are not like other objets of study. With these, memorisation is not enough: you must out them into effect. The happy person is not the one who knows them but the one who performs them. (75.7)
What do you need in order to be good? Willingness. (80.4)
You are hard at work, forgetting everything else and sticking to the single task of making yourself a better person every day. This I approve, and rejoice in it too. I urge you, indeed plead with you, to persevere. All the same, I have a warning for you. There are those whose wish is to be noticed rather than to make moral progress. Don’t be like them . . . (5.1)
I see there will be no end to this topic unless I just make an end. (87.11)
We should hunt out the helpful pieces of teaching, and the spirited and noble-minded sayings which are capable of immediate practical application [..] and learn them so well that words become works.
Lucius Piso was drunk from the very moment of his appointment as Warden of the City of Rome.