Blame Quotes Quotes

“You can turn every ugly and damaging drama into a genuine blessing by seeing it differently. No one is suffering on purpose. We learn to give up the pleasure we feel in self-righteously blaming others. Healing happens when we see things differently. The question is: do you want suffering or peace? It's that simple.”
― Donna Goddard, Waldmeer

“One who throws stones at others has less to use to build his own house.”
― Matshona Dhliwayo

“He would hurt me and make the hurt my fault. So no matter who got hurt, I was to be blamed, always.”
― Namrata Gupta, Lost Love Late Love

“An archer must never blame a target for missing it.”
― Matshona Dhliwayo

“Depression starts from a deeply rooted idea, that as a human being, you are a sinner. Even if you are agnostic, atheistic, or a mystic, sin is a belief that you have violated some internal law of ethics, which causes an inability to regain your divine state of love. It is Fault. Disobedience to a higher power, god, or archetype is another definition from separation of peace of mind.

Even if the god or archetype cannot be proven, it still exists in your mind, thus fault is real in your mind. It's the idea that you have broken an internal rule that separates you from delivery of a promise. This creates depression, which is a long standing feeling of pain due to permanent loss. It is not short term loss. It is complete loss that can never be returned.

When you birthed yourself into this reality, you were vast, elegant, exquisite, intelligent, infinite, and beautiful beyond understanding. You came into this time and space matrix to gain a soul, and that required a lot of experience. Experience is painful. Experience is expansive. Close the door by accepting the loss.”
― Deborah Bravandt

“Blaming others for your situation may make you feel good, but it won’t improve your circumstances one bit.”
― Frank Sonnenberg, Leadership by Example: Be a role model who inspires greatness in others

“Blaming is a universal human trait that helps people feel good while feeling bad, or as my old teacher Elvin Semrad used to say: 'Hate makes the world go round.”
― Bessel A. van der Kolk, The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma

“Finally, remember to blame no one, including yourself, whenever some calamities fall upon you.”
― Mwanandeke Kindembo, Resistance To Intolerance

“Before being upset with someone, do first some background checks on them, sometimes people wounded in other battles may find you a handy scapegoat.”
― Bangambiki Habyarimana, Pearls Of Eternity

“If you look in the mirror and don’t like what you see, don’t blame the mirror.”
― Frank Sonnenberg, Leadership by Example: Be a role model who inspires greatness in others

“While one cannot state that all blamers have narcissistic personality disorder, blaming is a common behavior among those who fall somewhere on the continuum.”
― Thabo Katlholo, Blame Less: A Grim Journey Into the Life of a Chronic Blamer

“While it’s certainly true that life presents many difficulties, and undeniable the pain and suffering they often cause, to blame others as the reason for one’s unhappiness is to cast oneself in the role of the victim. For all those years I condemned myself to victimhood I lost so much of myself and so much of what I stood for.”
― Thabo Katlholo, Blame Less: A Grim Journey Into the Life of a Chronic Blamer

“Often, those who are the target of your blame have no idea (or could care less) about how you really feel. You only hurt yourself by being a prisoner of your own bitterness and resentment. Your feelings may be justified, but they will not help you become happy, healthy, and successful. Ultimately, isn’t that what you really want?”
― Thabo Katlholo, Blame Less: A Grim Journey Into the Life of a Chronic Blamer

“The truth is, when you stop acting like a victim, you’ll start attracting a new group of healthy friends who are interested in you as a person, not just what they can do for you.
These are the relationships you want. Healthy relationships have a give and take. You need to give and receive. This is how you really rid yourself of anger and resentment. It’s scary because at first you get to worry that you’ll be all alone, that no one will ever love you. Start small and see what happens.”
― Thabo Katlholo, Blame Less: A Grim Journey Into the Life of a Chronic Blamer

“Self-mastery means turning the critical eye inward to yourself, rather than always identifying the faults of others. After you have accomplished this, you must refrain from blaming any creature; including yourself.”
― Mwanandeke Kindembo

“When you blame others for your circumstances, you surrender control of your future.”
― Frank Sonnenberg, The Path to a Meaningful Life

“Sin as it is a term that implies the rejection of responsibility by blaming another person rather than being responsible. Choices are eternal. Choices cannot be erased; however, you can embrace responsibility for your choices by apologizing, cleaning up your mess, and living an impeccable life. This is emotional intelligence.”
― Deborah Bravandt

“One of the most formidable enemies of personal growth is blame.”
― Charles F Glassman

“Stop blaming everyone when you have made wrong choices. You will ever learn. You will never grow, and you will keep on repeating same mistakes over and over again .”
― De philosopher DJ Kyos

“It is always someone or something else that is somehow responsible for the problems you’re having.
People like me who blame others tend to overemphasize themselves while at the same time underemphasizing the negative effects of their actions.
Realize something very important here, I didn't say 'overemphasize the effects of others on them,' I said, overemphasize themselves. Overemphasizing the negative impact others have had on them is very much a part of overemphasizing self.”
― Thabo Katlholo, Blame Less: A Grim Journey Into the Life of a Chronic Blamer

“There are illusory advantages to victimhood, as finger-pointing provides a convenient justification for life’s unsatisfactory conditions, and sheds the work necessary to take complete charge of one’s own life and well-being.”
― Thabo Katlholo, Blame Less: A Grim Journey Into the Life of a Chronic Blamer

“What is your problem?
What’s keeping you stuck and upset?
Why do you blame other people?
Be honest with yourself. It’s not easy, but without doing this, you won’t go anywhere. Stop blaming other people. It doesn’t help. It doesn’t change the situation. Actually, it won’t even make you feel better. It’s a great waste of your time and energy.”
― Thabo Katlholo, Blame Less: A Grim Journey Into the Life of a Chronic Blamer

“You cannot keep blaming the rich people for all of your miseries if you are not willing to act in the first place.”
― Mwanandeke Kindembo, Resistance To Intolerance

“The most effective diet is when you shed the weight of guilt, worry, and blame.”
― Charles F Glassman

“The most effective diet is when you shed the weight of guilt, shame, and worry.”
― Charles F Glassman

“The fact that humanity has been given the power to procreate shows that we are responsible, not to blame God, for our weaknesses or illnesses.”
― Mwanandeke Kindembo

“We have no one to blame except our own ignorance of world matters.”
― Mwanandeke Kindembo, Destiny of Liberty

“It is true that God is good, but one can only blame nature for being cruel and unpredictable.”
― Mwanandeke Kindembo

“Memories haunted me often and prevented my mind from settling soon. I had to choose a hard path for bread, while the dilemma began to overrule me. That was the cause of a journey to a new World to hide from the blame. No one was willing to encourage a penniless adventurer, my major disappointment!”
― Nithin Purple

“Blaming others only fueled my rebellion and made me look at what was wrong with everyone and everything else, while entirely ignoring what was wrong with me.”
― Michael J Heil, Pursued: God’s relentless pursuit and a drug addict’s journey to finding purpose